• A recent survey commissioned by The Century Council, a national
non-profit
dedicated to fighting drunk driving and underage drinking, revealed
that 65 percent
of underage youth say they get alcohol from family and friends, meaning
they get it
from their parents, their friends’ parents, older siblings or friends,
with or without
their permission.
• Between graduation parties, end-of-school celebrations and the free-time
and fun of
the summer season, some parents can be tempted to host parties for
their minor-aged
kids and their friends – sometimes with alcohol – with the mistaken
belief that it is a
safer option for their kids to drink at home than to drink somewhere
else.
• Other parents may regard high school graduation – or going off to
college – as special
occasions where it is fine for alcohol to be served.
• Others think back to their teens
when the legal drinking age in many states was 18
and consider alcohol use just a normal part of growing up. But the
legal drinking age
in America is now 21. Underage drinking is illegal in all 50 states
and the District of
Columbia.
• If your underage teen drinks and drives, you may be legally liable
for any damage,
injury or death caused by your child. This is especially true if you
provided the
alcohol. Adult-supervised parties in which alcohol is served to minors
are neither
legal nor responsible.
• The consumption or possession of alcohol by your kids and their
friends that is
provided by you is all the evidence needed for you to be criminally
prosecuted or
civilly sued.
• Specific laws vary state by state, but parents who break these laws
could be forced to
pay all medical bills and property damages in the case of a crash,
and could also be
sued for emotional pain and suffering when there is severe injury or
death.
• In some states, the parents can even subject themselves to criminal
prosecution. In one
case in Pennsylvania, a parent was sentenced to 1-4 year prison term
for involuntary
manslaughter after three teens died
in a drunk-driving crash following a party the
parent hosted. In that case, the parent did not buy the alcohol consumed
at the party,
but knowingly permitted the teens
to drink the alcohol that was brought in by others.
• You may also want to think about the added risks of leaving your
teens home alone if
you go away for a weekend or on vacation. Parents may be held responsible
even if
they are not home when underage drinking occurs on their property.